Elise Enriquez

Committed to Chaos: Why women double down on overwhelm

Mari welcomes back productivity wizard Elise Enriquez (Crew Faculty Coach) to expose the uncomfortable truth: most of us are committed to chaos and don't even know it. They discuss the four chaos responses - constant motion (firefighting everything), avoidance (scrolling instead of starting), paralysis (staring at your to-do list unable to move), and fawning (people-pleasing your way into more overwhelm) - and why women double down on this commitment (spoiler: patriarchy conditioned us that we HAVE to do it all). Elise walks through the Jumpstart exercise that changed everything: mapping your actual week hour-by-hour to confront reality, then doing a brain dump to see what actually matters. Plus, why sharing your screen with Elise feels like showing your underwear drawer, and the relief of feeling just as good about what's NOT getting done as what is.